Most relationships suffer because either partner is bogged down by a lot of insecurities. Insecurities could be related to looks, performance in bed, overall attitude or even fear of losing the partner.
Such insecurities actually make you less open to your partner, both in the bedroom as well as out of it.
Honesty and openness are very important in a relationship and in order to have both, it is important that you feel good about yourself. It is pertinent to note that you are actually losing out on a good relationship because of your insecurities.
Frank communication between partners can actually ease some of the insecurities but for this to happen, both partners must be ready and willing.
Most people feel very comfortable within their own little worlds and do not want to change anything. However, this does not get them far.
So, it becomes necessary to move beyond your restrictive boundaries into open pastures in order to experience the thrill of a growing relationship.
Letting go of your insecurities and reaching out to your partner is a good way to ensure growth in a relationship.
So, bearing in mind all that you stand to lose because of your inhibitions and insecurities, along with all that you stand to gain, say goodbye to your insecurities today and be a new person.