For whatever reason, even the wildest women become at least slightly prudish in the bedroom after becoming mums. Maybe we think we can’t have fun anymore. Maybe we feel “naughty” doing those things when we are mums. The good news is that mums are allowed to be naughty in the bedroom. You don’t have to become boring just because you have kids. Get the idea that mums need to be prim and proper out of your head! If you need to get back to your former sex-kitten self (you know, before you became a boring mum), try these 10 “mum” moves;
1. Stand up straight
Or rather, bend down straight. Such sex moves is a “must try” for anyone trying to prove they are still a sex goddess! While in a standing position, grab your ankles and have your man enter from behind. You both will forget for a moment that you even have kids.
2. Push the chair in
Make sure the kids are in bed for this hot sex move. Have your man sit on a kitchen chair (sans clothing) and sit down on his lap (also sans clothes). Lean forward a bit and let him enter you. This will be your favourite chair in the house.
3. Set the table
Well, unset it before you try this. Lay down on the kitchen table with your legs hanging over the edge. Let him enter you standing up in a relaxed position. Enjoy this naughty new way to use the table… Just be sure to clean it before the kids come down for breakfast.
4. Get in the bathtub
Straddle him in the bathtub to make the bathroom steamy in more than one way. If all you have is a shower, lean towards the shower wall and have him enter you from behind. Even better, have him lift you up and pin you against the wall to get dirty before you get clean.
5. Make the bed
Take the boring old doggie style to a new level by bending over the bed and having him enter you from behind. This will feel especially tight for both of you as your legs will be together instead of slightly apart. The best thing about this position; moans can be muffled as to not wake the children.
6. Lay back down
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Have your man lay down on his back. Lay on top of him on your back as well. Have him thrust up into you for this very un-prudish sex position.
7. Use your ears
For the most flexible mums, put both legs up next to your ears and have him enter you for the deepest feeling possible. We bet you can’t keep a straight face next time you tell your kids to start using their ears when they aren’t listening.
8. Head, shoulders, knees and toes
You might not mind singing that old kids’ song if you start practising this position. Get on top of your man while he is lying on his back. Instead of the usual cowgirl position of bending your knees behind you, straighten your legs so that your knees are near his shoulders and toes are by his ears. He is probably going to have to do most of the work in this position, but he probably won’t complain.
9. Get your feet off the couch
Straddle him while facing each on the couch. The buoyance of the couch will make thrusting easy for both of you because you can basically bounce into each other. The location is great as well because it offers a bit of the fear of getting caught. You might be too caught up in the moment to even notice anyway.
10. Don’t watch so much television
Instead, watch some videos…of yourself. Record some of your best sex moves on your wildest nights and watch them occasionally when you start to feel your prim and proper mum ways kicking in. You’ll quickly remember that mums can have fun too!
For more ideas on how to be a sex goddess and for wildest sex moves, check out: Mum’s sexy treats, 5 sex tricks to wow him, Help your man to multiple orgasms.