Now that the P1 registration has ended and the results are out, the next step is preparing your child for primary school. Here’s what you need to know about preparing for primary 1 school in Singapore.
Oh boy! It’s time for your child to start primary school. It’s a milestone moment for every parent and child, as your little one progresses towards learning academics and making a future for themselves.
Enrolling in a primary school is a difficult task as is, but it gets even more challenging when it comes to parting with your child at the school gate.
While your child is anxious about the new environment and leaving the comfort of home, it’s also a day when you see your child actually grow up for the first time.
If anything, the first day of Primary 1 isn’t easy for anyone, but it is necessary.
Children do tend to learn and enjoy school eventually, and that makes them like the learning process, make friends and build a life of their own.
While the learning curve will be easy for some children, a few others might find it a bit steep. The idea then is to ensure that you prepare your child in the best possible way to accommodate this seismic transition in their lives.
Schooling, after all, isn’t just about academics, it’s a completely new experience. Schools teach children social and emotional skills, as well as help them identify with real-world tasks and challenges.
What Is the Best Age to Start Primary School
Many children are forced to begin schooling at a very young age. For many psychologists, most of the children who are sent to school early are not yet mentally prepared for the different tasks at school work they might encounter inside the classroom.
The age of four and five is the stage where play is still important for them. This will help them improve and develop different skills like mental, physical, and social through their interaction with other children.
For this reason, at this age, they should be enjoying a lot of time playing so sending them to a primary school is not good for their mental capacity. If you want them to learn at an early age, you can enrol them in a nursery or preparatory school where they teach lessons according to their age-appropriate levels.
The ideal age your children should go to a primary school is the age of 6 years old. This has been proven to have many advantages for children. At this age, they are more likely to be more attentive and develop many areas of their brain and body to cope with the tasks inside the school.
In fact, according to the Ministry of Education, your child should not be more than 2 years older than the appropriate age for that education level. Here’s a table to guide you for the appropriate age range to enrol your kid to primary school.
How to Prepare Your Child for Primary School
Starting primary school is quite a big adjustment from kindergarten or preschool. So to make the transition easier, we’ve compiled a list of things you need to know when preparing for Primary 1 in Singapore.
1. Get Them Used to Having a Routine
As your child makes the leap from kindergarten to primary school, there are a lot of things to get used to. Topping the list would be the early mornings, longer school hours and more structured work. Even if your child attends full-day sessions in preschool, kindergarten is more play-based and significantly different from primary school.
One way to help your child prepare for Primary 1 is to establish structure and routines. You can establish routines in simple and fun ways such as getting them to prepare their own school uniform, finishing the day’s tasks before dinner, helping to set the table, and so on.
Be firm and help your child to build discipline by keeping to these routines. However, you do not have to be rigid or unreasonable when enforcing routines. In doing so, your child will start to understand the concept of structure and this will definitely give him or her a head start in primary school.
2. Role-Play Scenarios
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Starting school can be scary for children. Think of it as your first day at the office as a junior. You barely know anyone or anything happening around you. But you do end up learning.
Well, that’s because schools prepared you for it. Similarly, you can help your child ease into schooling as well.
Try establishing routines to familiarise children with the schooling process. Create a timetable for the day segregating the day for learning, play, exercise, and sleep.
3. Teach Children To Be Independent
Use the opportunity before school begins to teach your children to be independent and obedient at the same time. Prepare them to sit and listen to stories or engage them in activities like colouring that require them to be in one place.
You should also let them pack their bags and return plates to the kitchen after a meal. So when your children need to do the same activities in school, they already feel independent enough to carry out on their own. It will only help them build confidence at school.
4. Understand Academic Readiness
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Every child is at a different level when it comes to academic readiness. While some children are well-versed in the basics and ahead of the curve, some take a while to reach the same milestone.
The point is, do not compare the academic growth of two children. It only results in unnecessary anxiety for you and the child, and can also create self-confidence issues.
However, children should be able to express any personal needs and you can train them to be vocal about such things to their teachers. The preschool will also train your child in the basics of learning, like the alphabet and numbers from 1 to 10.
With the basics covered, teachers at Primary 1 schools in Singapore will build the rest of the foundation including reading, speaking and helping understand math and science.
5. Give Them a Headstart Through Enrichment Classes
According to Sue Lynn, the Academic Director for the Early Years and Lower Primary Programmes in The Learning Lab, having your child go for enrichment early can help your child see the world of English and mathematics in their daily life. She emphasises that literacy and numeracy skills are important when it comes to building your child’s confidence and preparing them for primary school.
“At the Kindergarten 2 level, being able to read is important. When children can’t read, they won’t be able to follow written instructions, and they may also struggle with maths problem sums. Being able to read makes a big, positive difference,” she shared.
The same goes for numeracy, as a strong number sense sets the foundation for higher-level mathematical thinking at Primary 1. Melanie Shen, Head of Maths Early Years at TLL, said,
“Children begin to develop numeracy skills from a very early age. If your child is entering Primary 1 next year, developing a strong maths foundation is going to be crucial—it begins with cultivating a strong number sense.”
Sue Lynn adds, “Exposing your child to literacy and numeracy skills from a young age enables your child to make the transition to formal schooling in primary school more confidently and comfortably. Confidence is key in developing passionate and self-directed learners.
Waiting till your child is not doing well in primary school can affect your child’s confidence level, and in turn, his or her attitude towards learning.”
6. Fan Your Child’s Curiosity
Children are curious by nature and a major part of preparing for Primary 1 Singapore is all about fanning that curiosity. This is helpful academically and also in building social skills.
For instance, teach them about addition and subtraction when they ask for toys or candy. Similarly, use real-life scenarios to help them learn about conflict resolution and resolving disagreements with other children.
Whenever children do something that’s new, make sure to encourage them for the same.
It also helps if children learn to reflect on their tasks and actions. It will only help them navigate through complicated situations independently and take the right decisions.
7. Speak To The Form Teacher In Case Of Special Education Needs
Parents with children who may require special education needs and transition support should prepare for it beforehand.
It’ll be in the best interest of your child to speak to the school’s form teacher before the year begins and discuss the requirements of your child.
This can include making the school authorities aware of any special stationery your child needs, extra time during exams, or even special attention during classes. Some children with special needs may just require to sit in the front rows.
You can also talk to the authorities about how to best ease your child into school, especially if they have anxiety issues. It will also help teachers if you can share coping strategies and or assistive technologies.
If need be, you can connect their preschool teachers with Primary 1 teachers to help them understand how to help your child.
8. Help Children Organise Their Belongings
One way you can have your child’s back is by teaching them to take care of their belongings. Children are forgetful and can take a while to organise their things at school.
To ensure that they do it well, you can label all the belongings with your child’s name and also instruct them to be mindful of their things at school.
Despite all that caution, do expect them to lose a thing or two every now and then, and use this as an opportunity to teach them about taking care of their books, stationery, water bottle and more.
If nothing else, you are definitely doing to save a lot on buying new things in the first year.
9. Learn When To Step In As A Parent
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As much as you can try and be there for your child throughout their lives, parents need to understand that kids also need to start dealing with situations on their own.
Preparing for Primary 1 in Singapore is a lot like that. More so, once you consider that it’s a different universe of its own on the other side of the gate.
So, as a parent, you will need to be mindful of when to step in and support your child, and when to let them make their own decisions. You can’t shelter them from challenges that life will throw at them.
Your child needs to know you’re their backup, so keep the support vibes strong. If you’re not fazed with the change, chances are they’ll rock it too. Oh, and remind them that teachers are there to lend a hand too.
You can also prepare them to learn when life gives your child a teachable moment. It will help them build skills like problem-solving, conflict resolution, and also independence. And this can do wonders for their self-growth and confidence.
Primary School Preparation
Here are more practical tips that will help your child transition to primary school:
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Visit the School: A visit to the school can give both you and your child a glimpse of what to expect. Walking through the hallways, classrooms, and playground can ease any pre-school jitters and help your child feel more comfortable on their first day.
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Discuss School Etiquette: Engage your child in conversations about the school environment. Talk to them about the do’s and don’ts, the importance of following rules, and the significance of respect and cooperation within the school community.
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Prioritise Safety: Safety is paramount. Educate your child about safety precautions, such as using crosswalks, avoiding strangers, and staying within designated areas. Encourage open communication about any concerns they may have.
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Prepare Supplies: Ensure your child is well-prepared with the necessary school supplies. Stock up on essentials like school bags, notebooks, stationery, and any specific items required by the school’s curriculum.
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Smooth Transportation: If your child will be using a bus service, research and select a reliable and safe transportation option. A convenient and dependable bus service can contribute to a stress-free daily routine.
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Offer Support and Encouragement: Show your child unwavering love and support as they embark on this new journey. Boost their confidence by emphasising their strengths and reassuring them that you’re there to cheer them on every step of the way.
Primary 1 is an exciting time for kids and you surely will be making some fond memories on their first day. So make sure to document it and enjoy their first step towards a new and exciting journey.
