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Oral sex tips that will get you that elusive orgasm

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Ok so you love oral sex, but you can’t seem to get that hip-shaking, lip biting orgasm you’ve been craving for, to the point that you might actually be dreading getting oral sex!

Relax, sweetie. Share this article with your man, and be assured he’s going to give you a time of your life down town. Yes, you can thank us later!

Men, this one’s for you…

Oral sex tips that will get you that elusive orgasm

#1 The slow tease

Start off relaxed and lick the outer edges of her vagina along both sides, moving back and forth from her vaginal entrance up towards her clitoris. Repeat this teasing technique and continue moving up and down. We said teasing so yes, do it slowly and have her begging for it in no time.

#2 Tongue her up!

The outer third of a woman’s vagina is a very sensitive part so target it with your tongue by inserting it slightly into her vaginal opening. Try experimenting by moving your tongue in and out and even in circles around the inside of her opening.

#3 The alphabet tease

We call this, as easy as ABC. Yes… cheesy, we know. For this one, try spelling the alphabet around her clitoris with your tongue. What’s so great about this is that the way your tongue is always moving in different directions will tantalise her sensitive nerve endings.

#4 The tongue flick

So we already know that the clitoris is the most sensitive part, but exactly what kind of technique will it take to turn her on? Listen up men— by using your fingers, spread her outer vaginal lips and then flick around her clitoris with a pointed tongue. This might actually result in a fast orgasm!

#5 The suck

Spread her vaginal lips slightly to expose the clitoris then give it a quick suck by drawing it into your mouth briefly before letting it go, as a form of a tease. Keep the suction gentle and your teeth away from her sensitive area to allow her to enjoy this technique.

#6 The sucking + flicking

Take her exposed clitoris in your mouth and suck on it gently and then continuously flick your tongue over and around it. Start off slowly and then move gradually faster while simultaneously increasing the pressure to bring her closer to climax.

#7 Lube it up

If all else fails, then just go with lube. Well, you can never go wrong with lube, right? The flavoured ones are recommended or if you’re feeling adventurous, why not give orgasm gels a go?

#8 Get the hands involved

Oral doesn’t just involve the tongue, you know. Get your hands in it too! While your mouth is busy, move your hands around her body, massaging her thighs and buttocks or just insert a finger in. This extra work can drive her crazy.

Have you tried any of these tips? Share your experiences with us!

 

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