Talk dirty for better sex?

A little dirty talk is a fun way to make a big difference to your sex life. Sometimes, it’s not just about the body language in between the sheets.

Four reasons why you should talk dirty

1. It shows that you are self-confident and less sexually inhibited - which is a turn on by itself.

2. It's encouraging as it lets him know that you are enjoying the moment and have completely surrendered to the experience.

3. Dirty talk allows you to flex your largest sex organ - your brain!

4. Dirty talk deepens intimate relationships as it exposes the vulnerability and intimacy of sex.

1. Make yourself heard!

If you are a reserved person it may be hard to talk dirty to your husband, but if you just relax you will find that it it not that challenging or awkward. You don’t have to use vulgar and offensive language.

Start with these PG-rated statements:

1. I love feeling you inside me.

2. Your touch makes me wild.

3. I’m going to heaven.

4. You feel so good on top of me

5. When I cum I’ll wake up the neighbours.

Of course if you feel really turned on feel free to use X-rated words. You’re a both adults now and no one is going to wash out your mouths with soap!

2. Talk dirty outside the bedroom

Dirty talking doesn’t have to be confined to the bedroom. The kitchen is a great place to begin!

Catch his eye and gently stroke the cucumber you plan to cut into his salad. Do you prefer fruit? Pick up a mango and take a bite, letting the juice drip onto your lips, then ask him to lick it off. Maybe this is a good time to tell him how "juicy" it is. Perhaps licking that dollop of sour cream from your fingers will get his attention. "It tastes so good – almost as good as you," will get him thinking the same thing as you!

3. Free phone sex

People pay good money for dirty phone calls all the time. The main reason is because it is easier to do it when there is no face to face contact.

Tell your man that you are touching yourself. Give him a few moans and a couple of whispers and remember that delivery is everything. The more that he feels it, the more that you will feel comfortable with it.

4. The last resort

If, for any reasons you don't want to talk dirty you can just sigh and make noises of appreciation instead.

Your man should be able to tell from your screams and grunts that you are having a great time.

5. Four tips on how to start talking dirty

1. Say what you are going to do and then do it. Two examples: "I think it's time to punish you," or "I want you inside me now!"

2. Describe your feelings and sensations: "Mmm, you taste like ice-cream."

3. Describe what you just did - "I just climbed on you and had my way with you"

4. One easy warm-up is dirty smses , such as: "So horny - thinking about you 2night."

Written by

Felicia Chin

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