Don’t roll over and snore—that’s the biggest turn off. Make use of the sizzle; don’t let it fizzle out too fast. Look into her eyes, take a shower together or simply canoodle.
EXTRA: What you have to say…
We asked our readers what their men do to rocket them out of the stratosphere. They answered and since it takes guts to be candid, they requested to have their names concealed. Their names have been replaced with pseudonyms.
Ruby: Nibbling the sides of my neck while caressing my back with warm hands turns me on tremendously. But you asked how a man can "WOW" you sexually-- if that’s the case the most honest description would be censored. Well here we go… a really skillful [bleep] does the job [oral on a lady]. It takes a man with patience, experience and smarts to do that!
Shanice: Lean into me while speaking to me in low voice, tickling the sensual part of my ears by whispering in ear with warm breath. No touching needed because I don’t like it dirty.
Nima: OK, wait… to wow me you got to be able to confidently maneuver without awkward bumps or cramping. But of course with the maneuvering without awkward bumps means many positions—otherwise…Yawn.
Jade Lee: Have a naughty-movie marathon. Rent a bunch of flicks with famously steamy sex scenes. How could you not get inspired? Then end with a lapdance (either him or hers).
Jolie Yong: Hip gyrations? Eye contact…we're both not big on foreplay. Any sex that lasts longer than 20 minutes is nonsense anyway.
Samantha Khan: I love when my man uses his wit and charm to talk dirty to me in bed, especially when he has the skills to back it up later!
Anne Marie: WOW, yoni massage and the sensual licking of the ear and neck without it feeling like being licked by a dog.
Sarah: He should be able to please me in all the right places, but before that he needs to tease me well. Once he learns the right spots, he should repeatedly pleasure me at same spot.
Please feel free to tell us how he WOWs you so that we can teach our partners a trick or two too.