6 ways to fall in love with your husband all over again

It happened. He confessed you were "the one" and after a whirlwind romance, you both got married and lived happily ever after.

Nah! Not in the real world.

No matter how perfectly-matched you are with your partner, there will be a time when the romance wanes and the relationship may start to feel a bit flat. You listen to him snore every night next to you, he knows your weekly grocery list by heart, and you just start feeling like each other’s roommates.

When that happens - follow our tips and tricks to reignite the lost spark.

#1 Bid farewell to your real life routine

Set up a hot date night with your man. Get a babysitter or a family member to help you, plan an evening out and remember to dress up for the occasion. Yes, it’s an occasion! And remember, no talk about the kids at all! While you’re at it, kiss your devices goodbye.

#2 The element of surprise

Keep the romance alive. Surprise him with love notes in his briefcase, get rock concert tickets for the two of you... or fix a couple's spa date and indulge in some R&R together. When something is unexpected, it deepens the bond. Try it today!

#3 Get physical

We don’t mean just in bed. Small gestures like holding hands, a gentle brush on the arm and quick warm hug might seem insignificant, but they all translate into a deeper connect.

#4 Let it go, Let it go

Let go of your grudges and forgive him for everything (yes, he may have made a few blunders over the years) but even more important than forgiving is, not ever mentioning those errs. Can be hard, we know, but do it and you’ll be falling in love all over again.

#5 Live life

Don’t let boredom engulf you. Celebrate every occasion and create more memories with your beau. Be it a birthday, or the anniversary of the day you had your first kiss, make it a point to remember it... and make a party out of it! These are the things that will one day make you look back and smile.

#6 Say 'I love you'

Remember to say the three magic words- I love you. Everyone likes to hear them and we often underestimate the power of this small yet heartwarming gesture- it can lift spirits and make everything A-ok!

So now that you're armed with these small yet powerful tricks, it's time to add some fuel to your marriage. These might not be the magic cure-alls, but they're definitely a good starting point! Yes, you may thank us later!

Do you have any more innovative ideas to share with us? Something you've done that has worked wonders? Do share with us by leaving a comment below.

Written by

Pavin Chopra

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