Toddler development and milestones: your 1 year and 1 month old

Toddler development and milestones: your 1 year and 1 month old

Get ready for a whole new level of interaction! Your toddler is discovering the magic of pointing and protesting. This is the beginning of two-way communication. Before, he was a passive baby and you had to anticipate and guess his needs. Now at 13 months, your toddler is taking an active interest in having those needs met!

Your toddler’s 1 year and 1 month old development and milestones are all about new skills! And it all starts with pointing at desired objects to make his wishes known.

He might stretch out his arms and bounce up and down to be carried, or plonk himself down next to his high chair if he thinks it’s dinner time. He might even initiate games with you, or bring you his favourite book to read.

This is the time when baby sign language really comes into its own because your 1 year old child finally understands that he can influence his mummy’s actions!

No need to worry if you haven’t done any sign language so far – you and your toddler will soon be fluent in a sign language that’s uniquely your own.

Patience is still a long way off, so a less than perfect response might trigger a frustrated wail. Your toddler is developing a mind of his own and is not shy to tell you! Don’t worry, all this is part of your little one’s developmental journey. Keep trying, and soon both of you will know exactly what the other is “talking” about.

1 Year and 1 Month Old Development and Milestones: Is Your Tot on Track? 

Toddler development and milestones: your 1 year and 1 month old

Physical Development

At this stage, your child’s median height and weight* should be as follows: 

  • Boys
    – Height: 76.9 cm (30.3 inches)
    – Weight: 9.9 kg (21.8lb)
  • Girls 
    – Height: 75.1 cm (29.6 inches)
    – Weight: 9.5 kg (21lb)

And your child’s head circumference* should be:

  • Boys: 46.34 cm (18.2 inches)
  • Girls: 45.18 cm (17.8 inches)

Cruising, crawling, walking, climbing – your toddler is all about movement. Whether he is standing on his own, or climbing low steps, or even walking, you need eyes in the back of your head. And preferably around corners too!

All this walking and moving means he has very little patience for sitting down and none at all for staying put! Your 1 year and 1 month old little one does not want to be confined in a stroller or a playpen. Of course, sometimes he has no choice.

As part of his 1 year and 1 month old development and milestones, despite being able to stand up on his own now, your toddler is still adjusting. As a result, he might still do things clumsily, especially when bending over to pick something up. There’s no need to worry if your little one occasionally stumbles and falls while trying to figure this out. As he grows older, his bones will grow stronger, straighter and sturdier. Soon his strides will be surer and tumbles will become fewer.

13 month old development and milestones

During 1 year and 1 month old development and milestones, the bones in your toddler’s feet are not strong yet. Avoid putting sturdy shoes on those little feet. Doing so may cause his growing feet to take the shape of the shoes.

Other developments you might notice include his growing gross motor skills. Suddenly, all he wants to do is pick up blocks and put them into a container. He will do this not just once, but over and over again so he can show it to you. You might not be prepared for the mess he is about to make when it comes to opening, closing and taking things out, but be rest assured, this is also part of his learning journey.

Nicer things to look forward to are his finer motor skills like being able to build a tower of two blocks high, clapping his hands together and waving goodbye.

Tips:

When your child begins to explore and take his first few steps without support, don’t forget to praise him for his efforts. Short strolls are great because it gives him plenty of opportunities to point out stuff and bend down to look at things.

Let him play with a simple everyday empty container. Allow your child to put some blocks inside, close it, shake it and open it to empty it out all over again. Not only is he practising his gross motor skill, but it also teaching him cause and effect.

Allow your 1 year old toddler to take pointers from you. Let him watch and imitate you: be it blowing kisses, waving goodbye or even putting things away. Soon he will get the hang of it.

When to Talk to Your Doctor:

  • If you notice he is unable to stand, even when supported
  • If he does not wave goodbye or point to things
  • When he is not able to build a tower of at least two blocks

Cognitive Development

13 month old development and milestones

Your toddler is discovering cause and effect. If he drops his pacifier, mummy will scoop it up. To confirm this, he would drop it again and again! He really loves this newfound sense of control over his environment, even if you don’t find it nearly quite as fun after the tenth or twentieth time around.

Actually your 1 year and 1 month old can already follow instructions, however, this does not mean he will follow every single one of them to the tee. He also knows now that even when he doesn’t see something, it doesn’t mean that it is not there. This is all thanks to months of playing peek-a-boo with your little one.

Also, if you have been diligently reading to him every night, chances are he will be able to point things out when you ask him to. 

Tips:

Do continue to keep reading to him, because kids soak up so much information at this age. Aim for about 20 minutes of reading per day and encourage your child to participate by asking questions like: “Can you find the red apple?” or “Where’s that yellow duckling hiding?”

Teach him about shapes, colours and numbers by lining up some colourful blocks and counting them together out loud.

Play games with instructions. He will be so proud of himself when he can do what you ask.

When to Talk to Your Doctor:

  • If your child is unable to follow simple instructions
  • When your child is unable to make associations or recognise daily objects
  • If your child is not able to find hidden objects

Social and Emotional Development

13 month old development and milestones

Inside your toddler’s head, he knows exactly what he wants, but the world just doesn’t understand him! And since patience is not yet one of his virtues, you will most likely see the first signs of stubbornness and frustration.

As part of your toddler’s 1 year and 1 month old development and milestones, he will start showing a wider array of emotions, including some of the less lovely kind. He will also start to display preferences, like playing instead of eating. Diaper changes might become a battle as he refuses to lie down.

Even if your child appears endlessly defiant, remember he is just testing his boundaries. Despite this growing independence, he will still look to you for guidance especially when there are unfamiliar faces around.

Mummy and daddy are still the centre of your toddlers’ world, but part of growing up is also getting to know other people as well. He might begin to take an interest in other children, play alongside them, and even start to make eye contact with friends.

Soon he will be able to express his emotions to the people he is around, such as smiling at mummy and frowning at strangers.

Tips:

A good game for this age group is hide-and-seek because it helps toddlers with separation anxiety. Through this activity, he can see that mum and dad are still there, even if he can’t see you.

Games that teach your toddler about emotions are a great way to help him better understand the feelings he is experiencing. Make different faces and have him guess the emotion. When he knows how to name these emotions, then he can start to express himself more. 

A good tip when dropping your little one with a carer is to keep the goodbyes short. This will be easier on the both of you. Remember to leave with a smiling face, even though it breaks your heart to hear him sobbing. 

When to Talk to Your Doctor:

  • If your child continues to show strong anxiety separation issues
  • When your child shows no emotions or interest in socialising with others

Speech and Language Development

13 month old development and milestones

Your toddler’s first language is still body language. If you have been practising sign language, it will probably speed up around the 1 year and 1 month old development and milestones stage. There is a sudden surge of vocabulary, even if he may not be able to verbalise it just yet. But his two favourite words, for now, will be “hello” and “bye”, even if he is still mostly pointing to get his message across.

This might frustrate your little tot as he struggles to tell you his needs while combining speech and gestures together. Be patient and give your child your full attention when he is trying to communicate with you. Be mindful of what you say because he is constantly listening and absorbing everything you do. For the most of it, his speech will be one-word sentences for now. But soon, it will progress to two words as he is exposed to new words every day.

Tips:

Continue to keep talking to your little one in a slow and clear voice, making sure to pronounce each word clearly. Use complete sentences so that he can learn from you, even if he may mostly be answering in one-word sentences during his 1 year and 1 month old development and milestones phase.

Continue reading and engaging him to participate by asking him to point out various things that caught his interest. Singing action and nursery rhymes together is also a fun way to expand his vocabulary. 

Play the name game! Point to different parts of your face and say the name out clearly. You’ll be surprised at how fast he will pick it up the next time you ask him where’s his nose!

When to Talk to Your Doctor:

  • If your child does not respond to his own name or when he is being called
  • When your child is unable to converse using single words like “hello”, “bye” or call mum and dad in their own way

Health and Nutrition

13 month old development and milestones

By 1 year 1 month, you can feed your baby about 3/4 cup to one full cup of solid food and 1 to 2 “snacks” between his/her milk feedings. 

Typically, the calorie intake for boys and girls of this age are as follows:

  • Boys: 801.1 Kcal/day
  • Girls: 765.5 Kcal/day 

Their nutrition should be composed of the following: 

  • Protein

1/2 a bowl of pasta with minced chicken, or two to three tablespoons of tofu, or half an egg

  • Fruits 

Your child needs about 3 cups of fruits (e.g. apple, banana, mango) every day, but do make sure you cut them into smaller pieces before serving. 

  • Vegetables 

Serve your child 1.5 cups of vegetables( cooked or raw vegetable) like mashed pumpkin, carrot and sweet potato.

  • Grains 

Increase your child’s grain intake to up to 3 ounces or about 85 g which equals to a slice of bread, one cup of ready-to-eat cereal, or half (1/2) cup of cooked pasta or cooked cereal. Do ensure that at least half must be whole grains.

  • Milk/Dairy 

You can now reduce your child’s daily dose of milk to about 400 to 700mL.

In a nutshell, here’s what your child needs every day (refer above for what the amounts look like):

  • Fruits: 3 cups for boys and girls
  • Vegetables: 1.5 cups for boys and girls
  • Grains: up to 3 ounces for boys and girls
  • Proteins: 20g for boys and girls 
  • Milk: 16 to 24 ounces of whole milk for boys and girls
  • Water: 1200 ml for boys and girls

During his 1 year and 1 month old development and milestones, your toddler is still trying out new textures and tasting a variety of food. Continue to offer nutritious and healthy food choices. Don’t stress too much if he is being picky because he can still get nutrients from his milk. So make sure to choose whole milk for the dietary fats needed for normal growth and brain development. 

Some parents might allow their kids to self-feed right about now. With this newfound independence, he might test his boundaries by throwing food just to see what happens. Do bear in mind that his actions are more curious rather than malicious. Dinner might feel like a battleground sometimes, but try and keep your cool in the midst of the mess. All of this is normal and part of your toddler’s 1 year and 1 month old development and milestones.

Vaccinations 
  • BCG
  • Hepatitis​ B (1st, 2nd and 3rd dose)
  • DTaP (1st, 2nd and 3rd dose)
  • IPV (1st, 2nd and 3rd dose)
  • Hib (1st, 2nd and 3rd dose)
  • Pneumococcal Conjugate (1st and 2nd dose)
  • Meningitis C 
  • MMR – 1st dose: Immunisation against Measles, Mumps & Rubella
  • Pneumococcal Conjugate – 1st booster: Immunisation against Pneumococcal Disease

Parents do note that following MMR vaccination, some children develop a fever and rash 1 – 2 weeks later or swelling of the glands of the neck after 3 – 4 weeks. 

Treating Common Illnesses

  • Fever 

 If your child’s fever is above 38.5°C, parents can give paracetamol which is to be administered every 4 to 6 hours or ibuprofen. 

  • Cough/Cold 

Parents can purchase common over-the-counter drugs available for cough and cold for children include decongestants, antihistamines, cough suppressants (antitussives), mucolytics and expectorants. These are generally considered safe for kids but do check with your paediatrician before making a purchase.

  • Colic 

While most doctors usually don’t recommend prescribed, over-the-counter, parents can use naturopathic and homoeopathic medications instead to treat colic

  • Chickenpox

If your child contracts chickenpox, do NOT give him/her aspirin as it may cause a complication called Reye’s syndrome which can cause liver and brain damage. Instead, ensure your child has received one dosage of chickenpox vaccination. 

Parents, do note that if your child’s fever rises above 38 degrees or the symptoms seem to be getting worse do take them to their doctor immediately.

When to Talk to Your Doctor:

  • If your toddler gags at sight, touch and taste of table food repeatedly
  • When your child refuses to eat and is not gaining any weight

*Please note that development milestones vary from child to child. If you have any concerns regarding your little one’s growth, do not hesitate to consult your paediatrician. 

Source: WebMD

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