If your man has a little performance anxiety, or is too tired after a long stressful day at work to please you late at night, then there is a way out. If he doesn’t already have an erection when he wakes up, it isn’t hard for him to… well, get hard.
Martha Lee, clinical sexologist from Eros Coaching says this: "Getting an erection may sometimes be part of your man's concern about initiating sex. A morning erection can, therefore, ease his anxieties, trigger his sexual drive and increase his sexual confidence. And of course, when both parties are confident between the sheets, it usually makes for more satisfying sex."
You, of all people, would know that feeling confident and sexy helps in having a satisfying love-making session. When you are feeling frumpy, bloated or just un-pretty, your confidence is dashed and the mind starts dwelling on the unattractive, when the focus should really be the pleasure part of it.