How to make lovemaking special

Lovemaking can be a lot of fun when you try something new like exploring your partner’s body.

Are you tired of following the same old routine while making love? Love making loses its charm when it becomes monotonous. So, couples should always try to reinvent themselves and try something new to turn each other on.

People often ask for different ways to make lovemaking special. The answer lies in spontaneity. The human mind is perhaps the most erogenous portion of the body. If you have been with your partner for quite some time, try to imagine what could turn him/her on and do the same to turn the heat on.

If you are too uncomfortable trying something dramatic, you can always start by shaking up your usual routine and trying something new that you both have never done before.

These could include something simple like lighting candles and playing soft mood music, or something as wicked as dressing up as a sexy nurse or doing the nasty on your kitchen floor.

Trying something new in the bedroom can help you see each other in fresh way and rejuvenate your sexuality. Also remember that you don’t have to discuss it before hand with your partner, sometimes keeping it a secret and springing a surprise could work wonders.

Also take time to explore each other’s bodies. Guys, don’t just go for the usual erogenous zones, take time to appreciate other parts of her body that you usually neglect, like her knees for example!

Mums, a lot of men enjoy cuddling, even though they may pretend not to, so spend some time playing with his hair, kissing his back and basically doing everything that you would like him to do to you!

If you are rolling your eyes at this article, you need to seriously let go of your inhibitions and forget about your past experiences and be committed to starting a new chapter in your love life.

Lovemaking should never be a drag. So if you find yourself making a million and one excuses to not spend time in the sack, it’s about time you sit down and focus on what actually turns you on.

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Roshni Mahtani

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