Kids face comparisons and criticisms outside the home. Provide a haven in your home through praising each child's special skills and abilities.
Does your daughter makes straight A's with very little study, yet your son spends hours trying to digest a concept and only pulls off B's? Applaud both of them for their victories and efforts.
Through training, encouragement and leadership, you can help your kids to be a shining example of good sportsmanship, win OR lose!