11 things boys need from their mothers

Children are like blank canvases. The personality they developed in their adulthood reflects their upbringing. Here's a list of what we reckon boys need from their mothers to help them grow into men their mums would be proud of.

1. Affection

Men, as we all know, have trouble showing affection. This is why growing up boys need to know that there's nothing so wrong with being a little affectionate.

2. Comfort

There's something unexplainable about a mother's hands. They are just the right amount of soft, strong, sure and gentle. That's quite a list, don't you think?

3. Dancing

The same way a little girl needs to dance with her father - little boys need to dance with their mothers.

4. Unconditional Love

A mother's love is simply irreplaceable. No matter how old you get - sometimes it just feels nice to be able to come home to mum.

5. Good Choice Of Father

Your choice of husband will be the ultimate role model for your son. He is the very first example your son receives.

6. Idol

Your son will always and forever look up to you and respect you. You need to be the best you can be for him.

7. Support

Human beings - we need a good support system. Someone we can rely on when the going gets tough. Who better than mum?

8. Respect For Father

When you respect your husband, your child will follow suite - he will understand he too needs to show the same respect for his father.

9. Responsibility

Being a responsible parent goes without saying. Be everything you want to see in your son - they learn best from what they see.

10. Secrets

Let him tell you all his secrets without the fear of judgement or punishment. This way you can be sure to develop a strong and unwavering relationship with your boy.

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