Desmond Tan Says His Childhood Habit of ‘Winging Things’ Came in Handy When Daughter Arrived 2 Weeks Early"Before I became a father, I didn't want to look into the future or back in time, I just wanted to live in the moment. But now, I'm just filled with curiosity about what's going to happen in the future, how my daughter's gonna look like, and stuff like that."