The 10 most important social skills your child needs to succeed in life

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Read on to find out the importance of social skills and what the 10 most essential social skills students need to succeed are.

Is it merely excelling in studies that makes a student successful? We all know that being ‘book smart’ alone doesn’t help us much in our jobs and daily lives; we need to possess several other important skills as well.

The same applies to our kids too. As parents, we should be aware that in addition to encouraging our kids to grow intellectually, we need to help them become well-rounded individuals that possess good social skills as well.

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To succeed in life, one social skill students need is taking turns when talking.

Researchers agree with this. In fact, recent studies show that simple skills such as asking for help, taking turns and doing nice things for others are as important for a student’s success as much as science and mathematics. 

So much so that these researchers believe that advanced social skills will in turn help students excel in academics as well.

Stephen Elliot, a Vanderbilt Peabody education and psychology researcher and author clarifies this statement saying, “That doesn’t mean that social skills make you smarter; it means that these skills make you more amenable to learning.”

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Students who are able to ignore distractions and focus are said to be able to excel in academics too.

He added that while researching this subject, his team found that elementary teachers and kids value self-control and cooperation. If you focus on teaching those skills to students, you can maximize learning time and minimize disruptive behaviour.

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