Men think about sex a lot — every 7 seconds, according to the exaggerated urban legend. But what exactly are they fantasizing about which gets them tight in the pants? What is the most common fantasy of a married man?
Ladies, here are the wildest dreams that your husbands are having in the bedroom… plus some tips to make them come true.
Find out the most common sexual fantasy of a married man that your own husband might have as well. While this is not meant to pressure you into doing them, you may find something you would like to try out with your hubby.
Most Common Sex Fantasy Of A Married Man
1) Having her in charge
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All confident men know that the sexiest woman is a confident one. It’s a huge ego boost to see your lady turned on by you and openly showing it.
For some husbands, this may mean some whips and handcuffs, dominatrix-style; for others, simply a partner who eyes them boldly up and down before telling you exactly how she wants you. Ladies, if your husband’s usually in charge in the bedroom, don’t hesitate to change it up by taking the lead.
2) Sex with multiple women
No surprises here this is the most common sexual fantasy of a married man. Nearly every man has dreamed of being sandwiched between two ladies in a steamy threesome (or four, or five… you get the idea). A study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine revealed that more than 80% of men fantasized about sex with two women.
Ladies, you can help your husband get all the stimulation he needs by getting creative with sex toys like prostate massagers.
3) Getting a blowjob
It’s no surprise this is part of the list of the most common sexual fantasy of a married man.
Lips trailing fire up your thighs, a warm mouth lingering on you down there, her gaze meeting yours as her head bobs — a simple fantasy, and by far the most common one. More than 90% of men have this high on their naughty list.
Ladies, if you’d like to do this but are uncomfortable with going down on your knees, there are many other positions you can try. For example, you can lie back while he kneels over you. And if the taste bothers you, you might want to experiment with flavoured lube.
4) Watching their wives have sex
There’s something so sexy about watching your lover lost to the throes of pleasure. While it might come a surprise to you, this is also the most common sexual fantasy of a married man.
Whether it’s seeing their lady masturbate, or watching her get her kink on with other women, many men have secret fantasies of being voyeurs. Don’t be afraid to put on a show, ladies!
5) Having sex with another woman
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The forbidden tingle of a heated glance with that gorgeous woman in the red dress, the thrilling thought of so easily taking it further — this fantasy is all about the headiness of transgression. Well over 80% of men have fantasized about having sex with someone who wasn’t their partner.
To indulge this fantasy, both of you can roleplay sexy strangers meeting for the first time. As they say, variety is the spice of life!
References: Everyday Health, Business Insider
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