10 sexy tips for a quickie

10 Sexy Tips for a Quickie

One of the most common excuses married couples with children use for not having sex is that they simply do not have the time for it. Who said that sex has to be long and time-consuming to be enjoyable? Even if time is not a problem for you, trying a quickie will give you a new sexual experience - in fact, many women say they enjoy the spontaneity of it.

These 10 tips will show you how to have a quickie and enjoy it.

1. Speak your mind

For the fastest way of achieving desired results for both parties, it is necessary to tell your lover exactly what you want. Honesty is the best policy, so if you want him to kiss your neck or if you want her to tease you, vocalise these desires. In this way, you will both reach your peaks, so to speak, quicker since your lover will be doing exactly what you enjoy.

2. Prepare beforehand

Set a time and place beforehand if you are looking for a quick shake in the sheets. That way, you will both be mentally prepared and won’t waste any time trying to find a location convenient to perform the above mentioned, shaking in sheets.

3. Build anticipation

Foreplay doesn't necessarily have to take place immediately before sex. Send each other steamy text messages throughout the day so by the time you are embracing, you will both be so heavy with anticipation it won’t take long for both of you to reach the highlight of the act.

4. Location is important

This may come as a shock to many of you, but try having sex outside of the bedroom. Find a day when the kids are out of the house for a bit and the two of you can be alone, even if for a short time. By changing your location, you are breaking the mundane routine you may have slipped into.

5. Leave some clothes on

His shirt half unbuttoned, tied loose around his neck; who knows, a couple of articles of clothing could just heighten the pleasure of the experience. Leave some clothes on during the act. It could just prove to be a titillating sight that might just turn you on both a little faster.

6. Kiss and mean it

Catch them off guard with a slow, deep kiss and you will be sure to find yourselves in the mood for a little more.

7. Embrace the available atmosphere

Remember, a quickie is about being spontaneous and doing something out of the box. Don’t put too much stress on trying to create a sexy atmosphere, go with whatever is available!

8. Don’t turn it into a habit

Remember that one of the main reasons a quickie can be so enjoyable is that it breaks away from your normal routine. If you take to making it a habit, the novelty wears off and your partner may start to feel unappreciated.

9. Timing can be everything

A little known fact, our sex drives are at its highest in the afternoon. The added factor that the afternoon is an unusual time to be in the act, gives to the uninhibited excitement that a quickie is all about.

10. Give more than take

Since you’re trying to minimise the time spent, try giving more than taking or expecting. This goes for both men and women, dedicate this short session to making your partner feel amazing. You’ll be surprised to discover how rewarding it can be for you!

Written by

Sonia Pasupathy

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