Dad's Response When Asked if He's Bored of Marriage is So Wholesome!

After 10 years a lot of our days can feel the same. They’re easily lost in the weeks into the months into the years. But that doesn’t mean they’re monotonous. It just means we have a lot of shit going on right now. 

She doesn’t jump my bones at any chance she gets, and she’s not exactly the promiscuous 18-year-old that once wooed me at a party. But that doesn’t make her boring. It just means we’ve got responsibilities that are a little more on her mind right now. 

But that doesn’t mean she’s not still the fun-loving chick I once dated. It just means there’s plenty of shit going on that she might be stressed about. 

As time goes on, shit becomes a little less fairy tale and a little more life. If she’s stressed, try to take more of the load from her. If she’s tired, let her rest. If she’s anxious, tell her she’s doing a great job, and if she’s insecure, tell her you love her more than you ever did. 

It’s not about judging them against who they used to be. 

It’s about growing together and finding new reasons to fall in love all over again. 

But one thing’s for sure … don’t for one second think it’s all on her to make things better or more exciting. You can’t expect her to act like a princess if she’s treated like a slave. 

It’s up to both of us to keep the spark going!

I think she’s all right.