Chinese New Year is just around the corner, bringing with it the festive tradition of giving and receiving red packets. While the little ones eagerly anticipate their extra pocket money, many parents find themselves wondering: how much ang pow is appropriate to give this year?
To make things easier, we’ve put together this handy guide to help you decide!
How much ang pow to give for Chinese New Year? Some basic rules!
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Married adults give, not receive
According to Chinese tradition, once you get married, you become a giver and not a receiver of ang pows. You get the privilege to distribute ang pows to those who still remain single or are younger.
Also, parents are no longer required to give ang pows to their children who are married. Instead, these children are expected to give ang pows to their parents to thank them for the years spent on raising them and to wish them longevity.
- No odd numbers, please!
The Chinese generally consider even numbers to be auspicious, because apparently, good things come in pairs! Hence the amount in ang pows is usually in even numbers.
Odd numbers are traditionally associated with monetary offerings for funeral wakes, and should be avoided for joyous occasions such as Chinese New Year, wedding banquets and babies’ full month celebrations.
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Avoid the number “4”
Although it is an even number, the number ‘4’ is avoided due to its similarity to the word ‘death’ in Mandarin or Cantonese, inferring bad luck. (Interestingly, Teochews do not view the number 4 as unlucky.)
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New, crisp notes are nice!
They signify a ‘new’ beginning to the ‘new’ year!
How much ang pow to give for Chinese New Year: By hierarchy
Now, let’s talk about the actual money matters. Keep in mind that this is just a general guide. Ang pow amounts can vary greatly between individuals and families, depending on your budget and circumstances.
At the end of the day, it’s the thought and intention behind the gesture that truly count.
Here then, is how much you might want to put in those red packets for:
- Parents and in-laws
It is common practice to give higher ang pows to parents and grandparents out of respect, closeness and gratitude.
Average amount: $88 – $288
- Your children
This amount usually varies from parent to parent, and it depends on your parenting style. Some parents believe that giving too much will spoil the child, while others believe in giving more for good luck.
Average amount: $10 -$100
- Unmarried Siblings
Some people think that it is not necessary to give ang baos to older siblings, as they are old enough to support themselves.
Average amount:$20-$100
- Cousins, nephews and nieces
How much ang pow you give your cousins, nephews and nieces usually depends on how close you are to them.
Average amount for cousins: $20-$30
Average amount for nephews and nieces: $10-$20
- Maid
Again, a lot depends on your relationship with your maid, and how long she has been working for you. Still, it is the season for giving and goodwill, so remember to appreciate those who make your life easier.
Average amount: $10- $50
- Random people
These could be your friends’ children, or your children’s friends. Generally, a small token is given as a sign of goodwill and blessings
Average amount: $2-$10 (Avoid $4)
Giving ang pows during Chinese New Year is a meaningful tradition that symbolizes blessings, prosperity, and goodwill. While there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to how much to give, what truly matters is the thought and sincerity behind your gesture.
Whether you follow customary guidelines or choose an amount that feels right for you, your red packet will surely bring joy to its recipient.
Here’s wishing you and your family a prosperous and joyful Chinese New Year!
(Source: MoneySmart, CNA Lifestyle)