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Signs Of A 'Slow Learner' And Tips To Help Him/Her Excel

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Signs Of A 'Slow Learner' And Tips To Help Him/Her ExcelSigns Of A 'Slow Learner' And Tips To Help Him/Her Excel

When dealing with slow learners, patience and grace are important virtues to remember. Instead of being ashamed, parents must help them reach their true potential.

Personally, I despise the term slow learner. To label children as anything at all is deplorable, but to label them as ‘slow’ is demeaning and degrading–not to mention telling them they are not as good as others. Especially since there are many ways on how to deal with a “slow learner" child.

But nevertheless, there are children who do need extra help and who do need specialised teaching to allow them to learn and grow. Does this make them a slow learner? Maybe, but remember–if you tell someone they are something long enough and loud enough they will become just that.

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It’s important to help slow learners find the right pace so they can excel

How To Deal With A Slow Learner Child

One of the most difficult tasks of parents and educators is to determine if their child is a slow learner because they cannot keep up with others or because they choose not to keep up with others.

So you might be wondering how to deal with a slow learner if ever your child happens to be one. 

But before you learn how to deal with a ‘slow learner,’ you should know a child as such is one who:

  • Reaches normal infant and toddler milestones later than the average child on a consistent basis. These milestones include crawling, walking, speech and vocabulary and motor skills such as clapping, hopping, skipping, recognising eyes, ears, etc.
  • Has trouble concentrating–all children have limited attention spans. but those who have trouble concentrating for more than two or three minutes at a time and are unable to recall what they did in that time and/or repeat what they did without instruction or prompting later on, will likely be in need of specialised attention and be labelled ‘slow learners’.
  • Struggles with the simplest of concepts and has difficulty retaining what they learn. This is a true indicator of a child with a learning disability. But rather than focusing on the disability, focus on finding how to work with the disability to make it less of an issue.
  • Is socially immature or reclusive. Children who are labelled ‘slow learners’ will a) notice the fact that they are ‘slow’ or learning at a different pace or b) be singled out by the teacher and/or their peers as being ‘slow’. This is embarrassing, humiliating and demeaning to a child. Their self-esteem and confidence levels suffer tremendously and they withdraw in an effort to shield themselves from the pain–holding it inside themselves.

A parent’s responsibility

If your child is labelled a ‘slow learner’, then slow things down for them. This is is the best way on how to deal with a slow learner child.

Give them the grace and time they need and deserve to reach their potential. Provide for them the environment and tools necessary to excel. Learning how to deal with a slow learner means patience for your child to grow.

Think about it–if your child was a gifted musician, wouldn’t you do whatever you could to make sure they were able to develop that talent to the fullest? No child deserves any less of a chance.

How you can deal with and help your slow learner child

  • Provide a quiet work/study area. Distractions are detrimental.
  • Keep assignments and homework sessions short. Again, it’s the attention span thing.
  • Be accessible. Help your child. Help doesn’t mean do the work for them, but help them work through the assignment giving clues, having them repeat the process or concept with similar questions and problems, etc.
  • Ask questions such as ‘what does that word mean?’ ‘do you see how that works?’ ‘Why did you choose that answer?’.
  • Read to your child. A simple yet effective way on how to deal with a slow learner child.
  • Be patient and consistent. As mentioned before, the best way on how to deal with a slow learner child is patience.
  • Do not allow them to give up on their work or themselves. If necessary, take a break, but always come back to the task and see it through to completion.
  • Don’t be overprotective. Labelling your child as a ‘slow learner’ only makes them feel slower. Don’t ever tell them they can’t accomplish something. Instead, help them find a way to get it done–in their own time.
  • Be their advocate. Stay connected with their teachers and make sure your child doesn’t fall through the cracks of the system.

When finding out how to deal with a slow learner child, remember that all kids are different. Every child has potential. Not every child will be a doctor, nuclear scientist or college professor. But who cares! If they were, we’d be hungry, naked and wouldn’t have a cell phone to chat on, now would we.

READ THIS ALSO: Turn an ADHD kid into an exceptional adult

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