The topic of earrings and baby girls can be a heated one, with many feeling strongly about it. For some parents, they’re against getting their little girl’s ears pierced, whether it be for age, religious reasons, or the fact that babies and toddlers aren’t really able to give consent yet. Whatever the case, parents typically get to decide for themselves where they stand on the issue. But for one mom on Reddit, it seems her mother-in-law recently took matters into her own hands by secretly trying to get her toddler daughter’s ears pierced. Needless to say, the girl’s mom was not happy about it, and now she’s wondering how to handle the whole thing.