For weeks or months now, you have been pondering about what changed in your marriage. You used to find your husband’s quirks adorable before. Now, they are just so irritating that you want to pull all your hair out in frustration. Having the desire to change your husband is risky business and, if not done discreetly and appropriately, it could lead to numerous fights or even a divorce.
Most people think that they truly know the person that they are marrying. Sure, they know about their partner’s quirks and flaws, but they all think that they can change or eliminate this as soon as they are married. Unfortunately, this isn’t the case. People never change and if they do, they do it willingly and not because someone wants them to.
Starting to change your husband:
In order to successfully change your husband, you must realize that the key is to not nag. It won’t do any good. He will get annoyed and may feel resentment towards you. Remember that in a marriage, it takes two to tango. In order to prompt him to change on his own, you must be prepared to change as well. However before doing anything else, internalize why you want your husband to change. Here are some tips on what to do and how to start: