Fun It Up! Doing things as a couple to bring back fun and intimacy in a marriage

It’s not unusual to take your spouse for granted and not put in enough effort to improving your relationship. Under such circumstances, you often notice that intimacy in couples takes a backseat along with their relationship.

One good way to bring back intimacy into a relationship is to start doing things together. Find out what pleases your partner and make it a priority to do it with him or her.

For example, if your partner loves cars, then help him clean his car over the weekend or if she likes romantic movies, then go out for a romantic movie together. The idea is that you spend time together, doing things that you love the most.

Cooking a meal together is another way of spending time together and increasing intimacy. You do not have to be gourmet chefs, just tossing a salad and heating a precooked meal is good enough. The very act of doing it together brings intimacy and fosters romance.

Going out for walks in the evening or when the weather is good also allows you to share intimate moments which leads to a renewed romance.

The bottom line is to share your likes and dislikes with your partner and do things together.