Are you raising your child to be racist without realising?

Are you raising your child to be racist without realising?

If your child was given a light-skinned doll and a dark-skinned doll, which one would she choose?

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Would you buy a dark-skinned doll for your child?

In a recent video circulating the internet, two little white girls were given black babydolls as presents, much to their displeasure.

The older girl seemed confused, but the younger girl burst into tears and promptly threw the doll to the side.

All this happened while their parents (or relatives) were roaring with laughing in the background.

But there was nothing comical about this situation, because teaching your child to be racist is not funny.


Racial bias and discrimination

If Asian or black kids were given white dolls, the reaction probably would not have been so negative, such as shown in a social experiment by psychologists Kenneth and Mamie Clark in the 1940s.

In this series of experiments also known as “the doll tests” they wanted to study the psychological effects of segregation on African-American children in the USA.

Four dolls which were identical except for color, were used to test the racial perceptions of children between the ages of three to seven.

Majority of these kids preferred the white doll and associated positive characteristics to it.

One of the most memorable episodes was when Dr. Clark asked a black child which doll was most like him and the boy smiled and pointed to the brown doll and replied, “That’s a n**ger. I’m a n**ger.”


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Is there more racial harmony nowadays?

Times have not changed

A new similar study was conducted in 2010 by renowned child psychologist and University of Chicago professor Margaret Beale Spencer, who is a leading researcher in the field of child development, and a team of three psychologists.

These tests showed that the white children identified the colour of their own skin with positive attributes and darker skin with negative attributes, which according to the researchers, is called “white bias“.

Spencer reported that even black children have some bias toward whiteness.

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Brown-skinned girl with white-skinned baby doll

Racial harmony in Singapore

Take a look at the dolls being sold in toystores across the nation here and it will be close to impossible to find a dark-skinned doll on the shelves, as majority (if not all) of the dolls available here have light skin.

Although racial harmony is encouraged and enjoyed here in Singapore, Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong reminds all Singaporeans that it is always a work in progress.

“We’ve made so much progress that sometimes Singaporeans may be lulled into thinking that we have arrived, no need to work hard anymore. It’s like this, it’s naturally like this, when you wake up it will still be like this, can go to sleep, don’t need to worry – and race and religion can no longer divide our society. I think that is being complacent, that is dangerous” PM Lee said.

A study on The Indicators of Racial and Religious Harmony conducted by the Institute of Policy Studies and, which provides a sensing of Singaporean attitudes on race and religion, revealed that although the majority of Singaporeans subscribed to racial harmony, only less than half had one close friend of a different race.


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Racial harmony is a work in progress here, according to PM Lee

Help your child embrace race

Instead of teaching your child to be racially “colour blind”, here are three main things you can do to help him embrace different people and cultures:

Start young

Allow your child to be exposed to people of different backgrounds starting from an early age, so they will grow up fully aware that there are many different kinds of races out there besides their own.

Encourage diversity

Observe who exactly your kid’s friends are and try to introduce them to someone of a different skin tone and race so as to give their playdates a bit more diversity.

Model good behaviour

Be a good example for your kids and refrain from making negative remarks about other races or using derogatory terms to describe others.

Let’s hope that if you were ever to finally find a dark-skinned doll here in Singapore, your child will happily accept it and always treasure it.


If those doll tests were conducted in Singapore, what do you think the results would be? Do you prefer a dark-skinned doll or a light-skinned doll for your child? Share your thoughts by commenting below. 

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