How to help your wife achieve an orgasm

Tips to help your wife reach an orgasm

While men usually have no problems reaching orgasm during sex, the same can’t be said for women. Here are some tips which might help the ladies to achieve an orgasm! Help your wifey out here…

Take your time

Unlike men who can climax in a matter of minutes, women usually require more time. Try to set aside ample time for sex so both of you don’t end up rushing through sex. The more time you take, the more stimulated the woman will become and thus the more likely she is to achieve orgasm.

Let her catch up on sleep

It is often the case that being sleep deprived can put a damper on a woman's potential to reach a climax. Make sure your wife is well rested if you want to have a night of fun in the sack!

Romance is key

While achieving orgasm seems pretty mechanical for men, a female orgasm is not so simple. A female orgasm depends upon many factors and one important ingredient is to have a romantic setting. So it is time to splurge on the candles and flowers.

Red wine

University of Florence research found that women who drink a glass or two of red wine are more aroused.

Mouth to mouth

Studies by Lafayette College in the US found that kissing reduces levels of the stress hormone cortisol, quickening the time it takes to turn you both on.

Pay attention to her body

Don’t jump straight into the act. Pay attention to her body and let her know that you are incredibly turned on by her body. One place to pay particular attention to is the clitoris as it is key to helping a woman achieve orgasm.

Going down

According to sexologists at the Masters & Johnson Institute, cunnilingus is the most reliable route to orgasm for 80% of women. Your tongue is strong, flexible and soft—making it the ideal instrument to get her there. Tease her orally before bringing it home!

Experiment

If the old routines have not been working well in delivering an orgasm, then maybe a new position is needed to help her achieve an orgasm. We are all different so there is no one solution which pleases all women. Try out different positions and see which one works for you.

Play with toys

No we are not referring to your children’s toys of course but sex toys! Go buy a couple of sex toys and your spouse and you might end up having a great time playing with them.

Keep her pleased

You owe it to your wife to try and improve your sex life with these tips and always remember that practice makes perfect!