10 ways to enjoy sex during pregnancy
Pregnancy sex
The old taboos about sex during pregnancy do not apply anymore for the modern couple. In fact, sex during pregnancy has been known to be even more exciting as the woman’s senses are heightened considerably. Sex during pregnancy also becomes a slower and more enjoyable experience, as both parties are gentler and more considerate to the condition. Here's how to have more fun with pregnancy sex...
Is it safe?
Before we give you tips on how to make pregnancy sex more fun, let's go over the basics.
Yes, as long as the pregnancy is progressing normally, pregnancy sex is safe! However, if for some reasons, you have some misgivings about your health, it is always a good idea to consult with your family doctor. If he says no, ask him to be specific about the reason.
Besides your doctor’s warnings, there are also other situations when you should not have sex. While these are basically commonsensical considerations, it remains practical to still point the obvious, such as:
Having a history of miscarriage or premature birth
The placenta is covering the cervix (this is Placenta previa in medical terms)
Your water has broken
You are having bleeding problems
Your (or your partner’s) religious belief or cultural upbringing about pregnancy sex (if ever there is such a thing)
Either you, or your partner, has sexually-transmitted disease (told you, these are obvious considerations).
Use your pregnancy to be liberated!
If you are usually rather conservative when it comes to the subject of sex, then use the pregnancy as a great excuse to break out of this inhibition.
Many women find themselves less conscious and braver in their sexual encounters during pregnancy as they conveniently blame it on hormones. Nobody is complaining though, as the sex is usually great because it is enjoyed with such abandon.
Embrace the changes in your body
Your body will undergo some changes, which is definitely more enticing for your partner. Larger breasts and widened hips are among the more noticeable changes. Enjoying these new curves can be a great turn on for both you and your partner. Don't be self conscious of your new curves - and instead embrace them and show it off.
Best positions for pregnant sex
Towards the end of the pregnancy, sexual intercourse can be a little uncomfortable both mentally as well as physically.
Choosing the woman-on-top, side-by-side, and doggie-style (on all fours or leaning over the bed) positions can help, as the penetration is shallower and there is no weight put on your belly.
Let your creativity take over, and experiment with what works best.
Alternatives to building intimacy
Try different methods of intimacy like getting naked together, having a shower or just laying naked next to each other and cuddling. Have fun with different ways of kissing with props like chocolate, honey, or even a new flavour of lip stick.
Introduce some props
Introducing sex props like handcuffs, blindfolds, scarves can be another fun way to get intimate during pregnancy intercourse. At the very least you will certainly have a good laugh just by being open to experimenting on this.
Furniture?
Using other pieces of furniture instead of the boring routine of having intercourse on a bed is also something that is encouraged. Straddling your partner as he sits on a chair can be just as satisfying.
Going oral
Oral sex is another enjoyable and safe option to explore. It does not have to conclude in sexual intercourse, as the focus should be on pleasuring each other. Taking the time to explore each other can also allow both parties to discover new sensitive and pleasurable spots.
While oral sex is safe, make sure you do not blow air into her vagina. A burst of air could block a blood vessel which may end up life-threatening for mum and baby.
Talk dirty to me
Talking is something most partners dread, especially when the woman is already experiencing bouts of mood swings because of the pregnancy, however when it comes to sex, men appreciate dirty talking - so mamas tell him how much you desire him and all the naughty stuff you want him to do with you.
Watch and learn
Watching an erotic movie together can also help to set the sexy tone for the night. Most people will enjoy some level of a "turn on", and this will make it easier for penetration and fulfillment.